Gregory Hemingway: Son of the Father

Steve Newman Writer
7 min readAug 23, 2018

“ That my father would tell me the truth about his mental illness was unthinkable. Something physical, sure. But mental, never…”

Gregory and his father, Sun Valley. Photo: Robert Capa

In Norman Mailer’s preface to Gregory Hemingway’s, Papa: A Personal Memoir, he writes;

“ It is a portrait written in love, it is with all the sweets and sours of love. What characterizes love when not wholly blissful is how damnably sweet and sour it gets. It kills any man or woman if they have the bad luck to be deeply in love with a veritable son of a bitch, and every bad thing we have ever heard about Hemingway can find its echo in this book. You do not have to wonder when you are done why any number of men and women could know Hemingway well and hate him. Yet everything fine, noble, attractive, and splendid in the man comes in with its echo as well. For once you can read a book about Hemingway and not have to decide whether you like him or not. He is there. By God, he exists. He is a father, good and bad by turns, even sensational and godawful on different days of the year, and his contradictions are now his unity, his dirty fighting and his love of craft come out of the same blood. We can feel the man present before us…”

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